Broken Hearts...
Some of the most common reasons why people tend to break up are things you #fail to realize early in the relationship. We think, He/She is cute and they believe in God...awesome, we can live happily ever after!
Wrong move!
I am a flag waiving, fiery zealot, and fierce promoter of LOVE!! Yea.... I'm a "sucka"
& What is beautiful about that is....I'm here to help you with your fear of it!!
Here are my Top 5 Ralationship #fails:
1) "Ike Turner Syndrome"
Controlling and abusive relationships don't ever work out!! I'm not just talking about physical pain....Mental abuse is just as damaging! So, BEFORE you get to the point of be-littleing your partner with condescending remarks, and malicious intent to harm their psyche...try seeing a therapist. Or...just break it off man!!!
2) That "I Wish I Could F*ck Every Girl (or boy) In The World" Bullsh*t
Get that phrase out of your mind! First of all...its impossible, so why even.... *sigh* (bbm sad face)
INFIDELITY and wanting other sexual partners outside of the relationship is my 2cd reason why couples break up! If he/she isn't happy with their significant other, inside and out, of course this will create problems...no brainer!
3) "F*ck Yo Couch N*gga"
Not appreciating your partner is a major 'no no' in a relationship!! Being selfish and not communicating will turn into a person being inconsiderate and literally not giving a f*ck about the persons feelings and sometimes belongings! I have PERSONALLY witnessed a similar "f*ck yo couch" argument between a man and a woman...not pretty!
4) Claustrophobia...Yikes!!!
Not having intimacy within a relationship can be a scary thing! Sometimes one can feel somewhat claustrophobic when sharing parts of themselves with their loved one, but it must be worked through in order to have a long lasting bond!! Without this...break up is bound to happen eventually! :(
5) "....Aint nothin' but Ho's & Tricks"
We all know what this means!!! ANYTIME a relationship is based on either sex, money, or both....its bound to have a quick lived romance! & more often then not....a traggic one!
THESE ARE MY TOP 5...WHAT ARE YOURS?? :)
Fill me in on some of your relationship stories...along with suggestions or feedback here:
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I can agree with these points but you left out one very important one and that is honesty. Not just being honest with your bf/gf but being honest with yourself about what you really want from your spouse. Then your not entering into a relationship that you know won't last.
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